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miscommunication....

assalamualaikum..Hello to all my blog visitors..how are you all today??Hopefully,
you all in healthy..I came againt in this blog..In this time.I want to tell about miscommunication..All peoples in the world must have miscommunication in their life.
It same with me...

I will had a miscommunication with my bestfriend..I will be her friend since I in kindergarden yet..But...when I n her in form 3,will had happened a big miscommunication in our relationship...It's that miscommunication that cause our relationship is in fault..In our miscommunication,it will because the third person involved...The third person was spoiled about me to my bestfriend...Besides that, to me,that third person also spoiled about my bestfriends...Cause of that,we had very big fight...A long time we can't talk together...When we meet,we only be don't know each other..One day,we know the truth story...We feel very guilty to each other..We had be a bestfriend again..Now,my bestfriend is study at Universiti Teknologi Mara(UTM).. We always contact each other and when we break,we always meet at town.I miss her very much.

One more miscommunication will had happen in my life is,with my boyfriend.At one day,my friends went to town..They all invite me to follow them went to town..
But,I not go to the town,because I had many assignment to do..Suddenly,one off my friends,will call me.They all tell me,they saw my boyfriend out with another girl..
I fell very disspointed..Since that,I trust him very much..I suddenly call him..
But,I very shoock,when I heared my boyfriend sound in busy..I forgot,that my boyfriend had told me,that day,at his house have a ceremony weddings..That truth, all my friends saw who that's people is same face with my boyfriend..hehehehe...

From the incident,I learned that we should never trust at talk another person,who that spoiled about that another person..Furthermore,we also must had a positive thinking...Besides that,we can't accuse another person without statment.. taht all about miscommunication in my life..thank you..

Effective Communication

What is Effective Communication??
Effective that I understand is meaning,a succesfully things followed by the result that we want...While,communication that I understand is meaning,the act of sharing or exchanging information,ideas or feeling...So,Effective Communication that can I conclude by my own definition is meaning,the act of sharing or exchanging information,ideas or feelings be a succesfully thing followed by the result that we want...Besides that,effective communication also can be meaning,is ensuring that your message is understood,stimulating the recipient to take appropriate action,or affecting the way the receipent thinks in some way...

That's are benefits of effective communication:
Stronger decision-making and problem-solving
Upturn in productivity
Convincing and compelling corporate materials
Clearer,more streamlined workflow
Enhanced professional image
Sound bussiness relationships
Successful response ensured

Besides that,effective communication also have barries for that communication be successful and effective...for example:-
~Language
=choice of words is vital to the effectiveness of any communication

~Listening
=careful concentration is demanded if a communication is to be understood

~Relationships
=The effectiveness of any communication may depend on our relationship with the
person giving the message

~Emotional Responses
=communication can't succed if a person is highly emotional about the topic
concerned